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No, no, no, no, no!

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Pat, I swear, your voice just seems to get better and better.

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You sure you didn't go to Juilliard or something?

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I did use to have a friend named Julie

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when I was a kid, and we did play in her yard.

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Sometimes we would sing.

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Oh, my God! Patrick Montgomery, I swear,

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if there was an Olympic competition for dorky jokes,

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I'd be married to a gold medalist.

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Your voice has gotten better.

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Well, how about me? I sing like a swallow.

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No need to get competitive.

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Life is a competition, don't they say?

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Don't you like to say that, Pastor Jackie?

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Never. I don't believe I ever even thought it.

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We should all be thinking about it

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if we're serious about winning the church volleyball league.

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And maybe we should consider opening our doors to the Congregationalists.

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Don Awrey is 6'5" and spikes like a madman.

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He is great.

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Well, you know, I dated a Congregationalist once,

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and he insisted on prayin' before goin' car parking.

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No, wait! No, he's Episcopalian!

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What about you, Don?

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Are you ever gonna join the team?

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- Volleyball's not my thing. - Not enough mayhem.

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He gravitates towards viciousness. That's why he went into law.

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Didn't you play professional football?

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- For the Washington Redskins. - Yes!

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Nah, I tried out, I didn't make the team.

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And it kills him to this day.

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I'm gonna go get some potato salad.

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I'll race you.

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We should really get going soon because the chart says

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that I'm going to reach peak fertility around 1:00 PM

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today, so.

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Oh, right.

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Little bit slower.

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Little bit slower!

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And be sure to emit as you propulse forward.

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- Evidently, that's helpful. - Really?

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- Here. Try to go deeper. - I'm going as deep as I can, Betty.

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No, you have been deeper before.

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If you can squirt rather than drip, that helps, too.

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But, slower.

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Deeper!

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And squirt!

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- Keep going, honey. You're doing great. - Do I have to sing it?

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Yes.

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If you wanna keep filling that sweet little heart of yours up with joy!

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- Hey, hey, hey! - Hey, hey, hey!

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- Come in! - All right.

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And why do I have the pleasure

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of a house call from my favorite pastor?

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Well.

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It's not exactly pleasure, I'm afraid. And...

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I might stop being your favorite pastor.

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What's goin' on?

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Bill's gone.

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He wants a divorce.

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It's been comin' for a long time.

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I know that you've been struggling some.

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Sweetie, sing louder.

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That's good.

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You will get through this. I will drag you through this.

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- I'm scared. I'll admit it. - What about?

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For starters, how will I lead the congregation?

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You're gonna lead us the same as you always have.

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And being single, after 23 years of marriage.

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I'm not sure I even know how to put one foot in front of the other.

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So you just need to look at this as a new beginning.

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A new destiny.

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- It's not fair. - It's my job, Betty.

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The whole point of that new job was that you wouldn't have to travel.

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As much. And I don't.

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Well, it's not normal for a husband and wife to be apart.

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That's all I'm saying.

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Right, but we're talking about four days here.

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Four critical days during peak fertility.

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Didn't the doctors say that you might get pregnant easier if you stress less?

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- So it's my fault. - I didn't say that.

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- Of course, you did. You did. - No, I didn't.

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And you might consider that it's your traveling that's causing my stress.

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Okay.

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So, the thing is, Jackie, our minister,

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she's not just out of town on church business.

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She chose not to be here today.

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Because I'm on the church council,

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she felt it better that I break the news first.

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Jackie and her husband Bill are getting a divorce.

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It happens.

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Get over it. Pastors are people like everybody else.

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I see some of you squirming in your seats,

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like you suddenly got pine cones up your butts.

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Well, I tell you, if you ever did get a pine cone up your keister,

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you'd be squealing like a pig.

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And Jackie Ponder would be the first one runnin' to your aid.

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So let's run to hers.

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Not the time to be high-horse, moral dopes.

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Let's just get on with being good Methodists.

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We can start tonight

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by kicking some Lutheran butts at volleyball.

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I got it!

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Betty, hey. Hi.

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Thought you'd be playing tonight.

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Sitting this one out.

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Understood.

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Yeah. Makes sense.

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I got it!

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- What makes sense? - What?

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My sitting this game out makes sense.

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- Why does it make sense? - Well, if you are expecting,

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it makes sense that you'd steer clear of any

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intense physical activity.

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What makes you think I'm expecting?

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No, no, I'm sorry.

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I just heard you and Allan were trying.

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I...

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I apologize. I overstepped.

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- Betty, I'm really sorry. - It's fine. It's fine. It's fine.

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You really do have a wonderful singing voice.

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Got it, got it, got it!

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Are you okay?

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I'm fine. I'm fine.

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- Are you sure? - Yeah. Yeah.

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- Are you okay? - I'm fine.

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- Good. Okay. - You don't wanna sit for a bit?

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No, I'm fine, Allan. I'm fine, thank you.

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- Alright. - Thanks.

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Sorry. I gotta communicate.

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What do you mean he smelled like sex?

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I mean he smelled like sex.

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- Are we talkin' about the same Allan Gore? - Oh yeah. I know.

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I know, but how a man looks and smells can be two totally different things.

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And plus.

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Plus what?

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Well, I was kind of

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gettin' the sense that he was likin' the smell of me, too.

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Like it could maybe go in that direction.

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What direction?

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- I'm not sayin' that I would ever-- - Candy!

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It's just this whole thing with Jackie.

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Maybe it's just kind of opened up a can.

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What can?

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The "content is not all it's cracked up to be" can.

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You know, my father, he used to say to me,

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"Candy, if you ain't growing, you're dying."

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And he would also say,

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"If you ain't searching

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you're lost."

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Allan Gore?

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I mean, he'd be "fall-in-love-proof," anyway.

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Just take a look at him.

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Who could be more "fall-in-love-proof" than that?

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Gary, would you like to share your poem?

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Okay. It's short.

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That's fine. Some of my favorite poems are short.

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Haikus are quite wonderful, in fact.

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"On my brand new toilet

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I did the same thing."

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It's about the folly of materialism.

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God, I totally get it.

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We all think that we can change our lives with stuff, you know?

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I do it all the time with shoes or whatever.

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If I could just have that or just get this things will be different.

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Mine's actually got a similar theme about "wanting."

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- Yeah? - Yeah.

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- Let's hear it, Candy. - Okay.

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- It's called, "My Heart Asked." - What a lovely title.

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"My heart asked, 'What's the answer?'

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"I said, 'What answer?' It said, 'You know.'

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"I said, 'I don't know. I give up. What's the answer?'

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"And the heart said,

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'The answer is don't give up.'"

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- Good night, Sherry. - See you at home.

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- Bye, Candy! - See ya.

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Allan! Hi!

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- Hey, Candy. - Hey.

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I want to talk to you sometime about

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something that's been bothering me a little.

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How about right now?

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Sure.

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I've been thinking about you a lot,

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and it's really been bothering me, and I'm not

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sure whether I want you to do anything about it or not.

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I'm very attracted to you.

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And I'm just tired of thinkin' about it, so I wanted to tell you that.

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You seriously got in his car?

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I did.

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- And told him you were thinking about him? - I did.

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And what did he say?

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He said, "Oh. Okay."

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- That's it? - Pretty much.

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Are you sure this is really about Allan Gore

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and not about you wantin' to be reckless?

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Maybe a little of both.

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But also men, they get to go to their jobs

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and live in their careers and

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we just stay home and

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God, that's supposed to be enough.

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Look at our kids right now on that jungle gym.

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It is human nature to take risks.

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To go for somethin' with a little thrill at the risk of falling.

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I mean, look at their faces.

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They are more alive than we are.

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It's not appropriate.

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- Why? - Because it's not.

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Where did you even get all of this stuff?

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Jenny's mom.

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You're gonna have to pick another costume.

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- Why? - I told you, it's not appropriate,

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- especially for a girl your age. - Dad!

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No, no! Never mind.

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I will not have you out on the streets trick or treating as a trollop.

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We will find something better.

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This is why I did not want her seeing that movie!

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-"Grease"? That's a family picture, honey. - No, no.

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It's a bunch of talk of girls putting out.

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- You're judging me. - I am not judging you.

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Allan, you do some of your best commentary with silence.

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One of the reasons

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why I go silent is because when you get like this,

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I don't know what to say.

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I don't know what you want me to say.

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The first time I took my wife out, I knew she wasn't smart.

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Why's that.

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I took her to a drive-in movie, you know,

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and I asked if she wanted to go in the back seat, you know.

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She said she'd rather use the ladies' room!

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But the day I got married, that was something.

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Everybody was crying.

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During the ceremony, her mother cried, you know?

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All the way to the hotel, my wife cried.

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And when she got undressed, I cried, you know?

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Did you read my short?

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Sorry?

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My short story from writing class. I asked if you would read it.

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I did. Excellent.

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Yeah? What was it about?

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It was about swans.

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What about swans?

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Wow. If I knew there was gonna be a test, I would've studied harder.

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Then study harder, Pat.

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You have a Ph.D.

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Yep. Not in swans, though.

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Yep.

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- Let me read it again. -My car, I tell you, Johnny.

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-Bad car? -I got the only car

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dogs chase it, they catch it.

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I told the graduating class...

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It's not about repainting or redoing. We need a new sanctuary.

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Well, a church is more about its parishioners than its hardscape, Jo Ann.

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That may be well and true, but this church

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isn't gonna be anything if we don't grow the congregation.

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And for that, we need a new facility.

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00:24:06,778 --> 00:24:09,281
It's not just that it's old, Jackie. It's crappy.

258
00:24:10,115 --> 00:24:13,410
Nobody looking for a new house of worship wants crappy.

259
00:24:13,410 --> 00:24:14,494
It should make a statement.

260
00:24:15,162 --> 00:24:17,164
Especially if we wanna draw the younger couples.

261
00:24:17,789 --> 00:24:19,958
Well, aren't we supposed to be the younger couples?

262
00:24:19,958 --> 00:24:21,459
Where's your head, Allan?

263
00:24:24,045 --> 00:24:25,255
I'm sorry? What?

264
00:24:25,839 --> 00:24:28,675
Where's your head? You think we need a new sanctuary?

265
00:24:32,512 --> 00:24:34,639
- Well-- - You know, the thing about

266
00:24:35,390 --> 00:24:37,642
religion and life and love

267
00:24:38,476 --> 00:24:40,270
is that there's renewal in it.

268
00:24:40,979 --> 00:24:44,441
And, to me, nothing sells renewal better than

269
00:24:45,692 --> 00:24:47,152
you know, something new.

270
00:24:49,070 --> 00:24:52,157
I agree. We need a major building.

271
00:24:52,157 --> 00:24:54,284
So if we look at our finances

272
00:24:55,452 --> 00:24:58,163
year-to-date, and we see

273
00:24:58,830 --> 00:25:00,916
that we are already...

274
00:25:21,937 --> 00:25:25,982
Well, you would think the teams themselves would have to clean up, not the referees,

275
00:25:25,982 --> 00:25:28,818
but I suppose that would just make too much sense, wouldn't it?

276
00:25:28,818 --> 00:25:30,987
Well, are we still on for coffee tomorrow?

277
00:25:30,987 --> 00:25:32,656
Is the sun still planning to rise?

278
00:25:33,657 --> 00:25:34,991
Well, I'll call you!

279
00:25:38,745 --> 00:25:41,456
So is Betty not feeling too good again?

280
00:25:41,456 --> 00:25:46,670
Some headaches and so forth. Probably stress-related.

281
00:25:46,670 --> 00:25:51,299
You haven't got any tricks up your sleeve to relax your bride, Allan?

282
00:25:52,550 --> 00:25:54,678
Betty's seen all my tricks.

283
00:25:57,180 --> 00:25:59,307
Well, this is me.

284
00:26:00,976 --> 00:26:02,602
You tell her that I hope she's feeling better and

285
00:26:02,602 --> 00:26:06,231
she can always drop Alisa off if she wants to rest.

286
00:26:06,231 --> 00:26:08,233
- I'll tell her that. Thank you. - Yeah.

287
00:26:09,442 --> 00:26:11,111
You sure I can trust you two alone?

288
00:26:17,450 --> 00:26:18,952
Well, good night.

289
00:26:22,038 --> 00:26:22,872
Candy.

290
00:26:28,336 --> 00:26:31,798
Before, in the car.

291
00:26:33,383 --> 00:26:36,636
What exactly was it that you had in mind?

292
00:26:42,517 --> 00:26:43,476
Get in.

293
00:26:56,072 --> 00:26:58,658
Would you be interested in having an affair?

294
00:27:05,165 --> 00:27:06,666
It's just something I've been thinkin' about

295
00:27:06,666 --> 00:27:10,003
and so I wanted to say it, so I don't have to think about it anymore.

296
00:27:16,009 --> 00:27:17,594
Okay. Well, I got my answer.

297
00:27:17,594 --> 00:27:19,262
No, no, it's just.

298
00:27:22,098 --> 00:27:23,308
I don't think I could.

299
00:27:24,434 --> 00:27:25,810
You know, I love Betty.

300
00:27:29,606 --> 00:27:32,484
And when we were living in New Mexico, she had an affair.

301
00:27:32,484 --> 00:27:33,985
Betty did?

302
00:27:34,736 --> 00:27:36,363
Well, I can't believe that.

303
00:27:36,363 --> 00:27:38,323
I know. I couldn't believe it either.

304
00:27:38,323 --> 00:27:40,617
It hurt me a lot and I wouldn't want to do that to her.

305
00:27:40,617 --> 00:27:42,744
That's fine, Allan.

306
00:27:42,744 --> 00:27:44,913
I love Pat, too, and I wouldn't wanna do anything

307
00:27:44,913 --> 00:27:46,998
to hurt him either.

308
00:27:46,998 --> 00:27:49,000
- I like Pat. - Yeah.

309
00:27:52,295 --> 00:27:53,922
He has the best voice in the choir.

310
00:27:57,634 --> 00:28:00,553
- Also, Betty just got pregnant again. - Really?

311
00:28:01,805 --> 00:28:04,099
Just recently.

312
00:28:05,141 --> 00:28:07,894
So that would really be unfair to her.

313
00:28:09,479 --> 00:28:12,273
Especially since I don't feel the same way about you

314
00:28:12,273 --> 00:28:13,983
that I do about her.

315
00:28:15,819 --> 00:28:17,570
So, I probably couldn't do something like that.

316
00:28:18,571 --> 00:28:20,156
Okay.

317
00:28:20,156 --> 00:28:22,909
I was just putting the option out there because of how I felt.

318
00:28:22,909 --> 00:28:25,954
But I certainly don't want to hurt you or your marriage.

319
00:28:27,580 --> 00:28:29,499
All I wanted to do was

320
00:28:31,126 --> 00:28:32,460
go to bed.

321
00:28:32,460 --> 00:28:36,047
But I won't mention it again.

322
00:28:44,013 --> 00:28:44,889
Good night.

323
00:28:59,904 --> 00:29:01,865
I feel so humiliated.

324
00:29:01,865 --> 00:29:04,117
It's probably for the best, sweetheart.

325
00:29:04,117 --> 00:29:08,538
Well, I wasn't looking for what's best. I was out for something more transcendent.

326
00:29:08,538 --> 00:29:12,083
And he broached it! He invited the conversation.

327
00:29:13,001 --> 00:29:14,627
What exactly did he say?

328
00:29:14,627 --> 00:29:20,800
He asked me what I had in mind when he knew very well what I had in mind.

329
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,803
And then he climbed into my car. I mean, come on.

330
00:29:25,096 --> 00:29:27,807
And why did he kiss me?

331
00:29:28,975 --> 00:29:29,934
Right on the lips.

332
00:29:30,351 --> 00:29:33,104
It wasn't exactly passionate.

333
00:29:34,022 --> 00:29:36,232
But it wasn't a brotherly kiss either.

334
00:29:36,733 --> 00:29:40,195
Well, men kiss all the time when they don't mean it.

335
00:29:40,195 --> 00:29:42,614
No, I think he's waitin' for me to make it happen.

336
00:29:42,614 --> 00:29:44,949
He doesn't wanna hate himself for being unfaithful to Betty.

337
00:29:45,533 --> 00:29:47,952
So he's waitin' for me to make it happen.

338
00:29:49,662 --> 00:29:51,581
Well, he can forget about that.

339
00:29:52,582 --> 00:29:55,084
I played my cards, and that will be that.

340
00:29:55,084 --> 00:29:56,169
Mornin'.

341
00:30:09,641 --> 00:30:11,351
Well, my word in Heaven, are you a bird?

342
00:30:11,351 --> 00:30:13,186
No, wait. You're a plane, aren't you?

343
00:30:13,186 --> 00:30:14,854
I'm Superman!

344
00:30:14,854 --> 00:30:17,065
You're Superman! You're a man of steel!

345
00:30:17,065 --> 00:30:18,900
And you might be the super-est one I have ever seen.

346
00:30:19,692 --> 00:30:22,278
- Well, thank you. - Well, you're welcome. Hey, honey!

347
00:30:22,278 --> 00:30:24,239
- Hey, Mom. - You're back already, huh?

348
00:30:24,239 --> 00:30:27,283
- Just to drop off. I filled my pumpkin. - Yes, you did.

349
00:30:27,283 --> 00:30:29,953
I'm just gonna go dump it and come back out.

350
00:30:30,495 --> 00:30:32,997
Well, what do you expect to do with all that candy, young lady?

351
00:30:32,997 --> 00:30:34,999
- I'll trade with Ian. - Okay.

352
00:30:36,918 --> 00:30:39,504
- Thanks for walking with them. - Sure, sure.

353
00:30:39,504 --> 00:30:41,047
Did you see Pat and Ian on your travels?

354
00:30:41,047 --> 00:30:43,967
I did see a pretty scary Elvis.

355
00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:46,302
Yep, that would be Pat.

356
00:30:47,136 --> 00:30:49,013
Him and Elvis, it's kinda hard to tell them apart.

357
00:30:50,765 --> 00:30:52,225
Come on, Dad. Let's go.

358
00:30:52,225 --> 00:30:53,935
- Okay. Bye. - Trick or treat!

359
00:30:53,935 --> 00:30:57,021
Oh, my goodness, look at you! Buzz, buzz, buzz!

360
00:30:58,273 --> 00:31:00,191
If I could only have a brain!

361
00:31:00,191 --> 00:31:03,194
Look how cute you guys look. And look at you.

362
00:31:03,194 --> 00:31:06,489
Don't sting me! The Wicked Witch of the West!

363
00:31:17,083 --> 00:31:18,793
Happy birthday to you

364
00:31:18,793 --> 00:31:21,421
- Oh, my God. - I brought you a confection.

365
00:31:21,421 --> 00:31:22,422
Yes.

366
00:31:22,422 --> 00:31:24,591
And at the bakery, they said if we ate it before 10:00 AM,

367
00:31:24,591 --> 00:31:26,009
it won't make our asses fat.

368
00:31:26,009 --> 00:31:28,386
At least, not completely.

369
00:31:29,429 --> 00:31:31,889
- Then, shall we? Hurry up! - Yes, we shall!

370
00:31:35,643 --> 00:31:37,228
This is why your people follow you.

371
00:31:37,228 --> 00:31:38,771
Yeah. I let them eat cake.

372
00:31:39,689 --> 00:31:41,774
So, listen.

373
00:31:41,774 --> 00:31:43,568
I don't like the sound of that.

374
00:31:43,568 --> 00:31:46,404
Remember I told you about that other job offer

375
00:31:46,404 --> 00:31:48,573
I had at Midwestern University?

376
00:31:48,573 --> 00:31:51,075
- Which you turned down. - Yeah, well.

377
00:31:51,075 --> 00:31:54,454
- It turns out I reconsidered. - What do you mean?

378
00:31:54,454 --> 00:31:58,708
It was pointed out that the bishop doesn't make offers like this every day.

379
00:32:00,251 --> 00:32:04,172
- But it's in Wichita Falls. - I'll come back and forth.

380
00:32:04,172 --> 00:32:05,965
What do you mean you'll come back and forth?

381
00:32:05,965 --> 00:32:08,551
It's, like, 200 miles away.

382
00:32:08,551 --> 00:32:10,637
Candy, this is my next calling.

383
00:32:12,221 --> 00:32:13,598
What am I gonna do?

384
00:32:13,598 --> 00:32:15,058
- You're my best friend. - Our friendship won't change.

385
00:32:15,058 --> 00:32:17,393
No, but you won't be here.

386
00:32:17,393 --> 00:32:20,188
- And who's gonna replace you? - We'll find somebody great.

387
00:32:20,188 --> 00:32:22,982
Somebody who can get the new sanctuary built.

388
00:32:22,982 --> 00:32:25,068
Oh, my God.

389
00:32:25,860 --> 00:32:29,238
You are the only one I have to talk to here, Jackie.

390
00:32:29,238 --> 00:32:31,532
That is not true. You have Sherry.

391
00:32:31,532 --> 00:32:34,494
And you're the belle of the ball at church.

392
00:32:34,494 --> 00:32:37,246
I mean Sherry is Sherry but

393
00:32:38,706 --> 00:32:40,500
honey, you're my heart.

394
00:32:52,136 --> 00:32:53,888
Hello?

395
00:32:53,888 --> 00:32:56,808
Candy. Hi, it's Allan. Allan Gore.

396
00:32:57,892 --> 00:33:00,937
- Hey. -Hey. Hi.

397
00:33:04,649 --> 00:33:08,945
I have to go to McKinney tomorrow to get my tires checked and rotated,

398
00:33:08,945 --> 00:33:11,155
and I know it's a drive,

399
00:33:11,155 --> 00:33:14,951
but I was wondering if you might like to have some lunch with me.

400
00:33:16,911 --> 00:33:23,209
You know, to talk a little more about what we were talking about before.

401
00:33:23,793 --> 00:33:24,752
Okay.

402
00:33:26,129 --> 00:33:27,547
Okay, fine.

403
00:33:28,423 --> 00:33:30,007
Well, how's 12:00?

404
00:33:31,050 --> 00:33:32,969
- I'll meet you there. -Okay.

405
00:33:32,969 --> 00:33:35,680
- Meet you there. Bye-bye. -Okay.

406
00:33:44,355 --> 00:33:46,190
- Where were we? - Who was that?

407
00:33:47,108 --> 00:33:50,236
- It's just somebody. - Somebody?

408
00:33:52,780 --> 00:33:55,158
Somebody I'm thinkin' about having an affair with.

409
00:33:58,077 --> 00:34:00,329
You told me that 'cause you want me to talk you out of it.

410
00:34:02,457 --> 00:34:04,208
Pat and I, we...

411
00:34:06,544 --> 00:34:08,296
Well, we kind of hit a plateau.

412
00:34:08,296 --> 00:34:10,173
Every marriage hits one of them.

413
00:34:10,173 --> 00:34:12,383
Well, I suppose yours did and you did nothing about it.

414
00:34:12,383 --> 00:34:16,179
Meaning what? If I'd had an affair, Bill would still be taking out my garbage?

415
00:34:16,179 --> 00:34:22,935
I'm talking about my garbage right now, and not wanting to settle for it.

416
00:34:24,979 --> 00:34:27,273
Sorry, that came out wrong. Pat is not garbage.

417
00:34:27,273 --> 00:34:30,651
Candy, I got front-door friends and back-door friends.

418
00:34:30,651 --> 00:34:32,987
Front-door friends show up when they have a reason.

419
00:34:32,987 --> 00:34:35,740
They knock. They say the right thing.

420
00:34:36,449 --> 00:34:39,118
Back-door friends, they just bang in through the kitchen door

421
00:34:39,118 --> 00:34:41,120
and drop whatever's on their mind.

422
00:34:42,413 --> 00:34:43,790
You are my best back-door friend

423
00:34:43,790 --> 00:34:47,001
so I am gonna drop my mind on your table here.

424
00:34:47,001 --> 00:34:50,087
This will come to no good.

425
00:34:51,798 --> 00:34:54,842
Jackie, I have done all the things a wife is supposed to do.

426
00:34:56,302 --> 00:34:59,388
The house, the kids, the meals.

427
00:35:02,433 --> 00:35:04,894
Where is the payback?

428
00:35:05,770 --> 00:35:06,729
Honey.

429
00:35:07,897 --> 00:35:10,358
This is the payback.

430
00:35:11,317 --> 00:35:14,237
Take it from me. Somebody who lost it.

431
00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:21,118
I can see your mind's made up.

432
00:35:38,010 --> 00:35:39,846
- Thanks again, Ronnie. - You're welcome.

433
00:35:39,846 --> 00:35:42,765
- Don't work too hard. - All right.

434
00:35:44,725 --> 00:35:47,228
Hi! You're here.

435
00:35:47,228 --> 00:35:48,855
- Hi. - Hey.

436
00:35:49,689 --> 00:35:51,440
Brought you this little card.

437
00:36:00,366 --> 00:36:02,118
That is so sweet.

438
00:36:04,829 --> 00:36:06,163
There you are.

439
00:36:07,290 --> 00:36:08,457
Thank you.

440
00:36:09,625 --> 00:36:11,627
I just worry, you know?

441
00:36:11,627 --> 00:36:14,839
Jackie is the church, when you think about it.

442
00:36:14,839 --> 00:36:17,425
I just hope she doesn't become a stranger.

443
00:36:17,425 --> 00:36:20,469
Well, how can she not? At least a little.

444
00:36:20,970 --> 00:36:23,389
Wichita Falls is a three-hour drive last I checked.

445
00:36:24,098 --> 00:36:26,601
And, frankly, I don't know how we're gonna go about replacing her.

446
00:36:28,352 --> 00:36:30,771
And I don't wanna belong to some stodgy-podgy church.

447
00:36:32,023 --> 00:36:34,233
- No, that would be awful. - Awful.

448
00:36:39,864 --> 00:36:42,241
Well, should we talk about our kids now?

449
00:36:42,867 --> 00:36:44,744
Or maybe more Pat.

450
00:36:44,744 --> 00:36:48,247
He was a champion trumpeter in high school. Did I cover that?

451
00:36:55,755 --> 00:36:58,215
I'm sorry. I've never done anything like this before.

452
00:36:58,215 --> 00:37:00,217
I haven't either.

453
00:37:06,015 --> 00:37:09,936
I would never be able to forgive myself if Betty ever found out.

454
00:37:11,729 --> 00:37:14,982
That would just be devastating to her.

455
00:37:14,982 --> 00:37:16,817
I feel the same.

456
00:37:16,817 --> 00:37:21,614
We would have to be so careful that no one would ever know except us.

457
00:37:22,949 --> 00:37:24,241
That's right.

458
00:37:25,576 --> 00:37:27,703
I've been thinking a lot about what you said about

459
00:37:28,996 --> 00:37:30,498
just wanting to go to bed,

460
00:37:30,498 --> 00:37:36,087
not getting too emotionally involved and so forth.

461
00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:38,214
That would be very important to me.

462
00:37:38,798 --> 00:37:40,216
Me, too, Allan.

463
00:37:42,176 --> 00:37:44,595
God, I just wanna enjoy myself.

464
00:37:46,973 --> 00:37:51,644
Without hurting myself or anyone else.

465
00:37:57,441 --> 00:37:58,943
Well,

466
00:37:58,943 --> 00:38:01,946
I think we should think about it some more.

467
00:38:03,114 --> 00:38:05,908
Think about the hazards and decide

468
00:38:05,908 --> 00:38:08,661
whether or not we're willing to take the risk.

469
00:38:11,622 --> 00:38:14,208
Fine. Yeah, I think we should.

470
00:38:18,963 --> 00:38:21,590
So, that's the plan then? Think about it some more?

471
00:38:22,383 --> 00:38:23,342
I think so.

472
00:39:47,343 --> 00:39:50,846
I'm not sure how many more of these strategy session I can take.

473
00:39:50,846 --> 00:39:52,723
Yeah, I know.

474
00:39:52,723 --> 00:39:55,601
- We just can't be too careful. -You know,

475
00:39:55,601 --> 00:39:58,604
if you don't go to bed with me pretty soon,

476
00:39:59,980 --> 00:40:02,358
you'll never be able to live up

477
00:40:02,358 --> 00:40:05,945
to the expectations I have of you in bed.

478
00:40:05,945 --> 00:40:09,740
Yeah, don't think I haven't thought about that.

479
00:40:13,661 --> 00:40:16,372
Maybe just one more planning session.

480
00:40:17,832 --> 00:40:20,292
- We can have it here. -At your house?

481
00:40:20,292 --> 00:40:23,504
Yeah, we can meet for lunch. People need to eat, right?

482
00:40:33,973 --> 00:40:35,349
How was work today?

483
00:40:37,810 --> 00:40:39,562
It's pretty good. Kind of the same.

484
00:40:46,443 --> 00:40:48,904
Have you been going over your list, Allan?

485
00:40:51,824 --> 00:40:53,492
- I'm sorry, what? - The list.

486
00:40:54,869 --> 00:40:56,829
The list of potential baby names.

487
00:40:59,623 --> 00:41:01,041
- I will. - You will?

488
00:41:01,041 --> 00:41:02,543
Yeah.

489
00:41:04,044 --> 00:41:04,962
Okay.

490
00:41:10,301 --> 00:41:14,096
If either of us wants it to end for whatever reason, then it ends.

491
00:41:14,096 --> 00:41:15,181
Agreed.

492
00:41:16,182 --> 00:41:21,061
If either of us get too emotionally involved, then it ends.

493
00:41:21,812 --> 00:41:23,522
We should make that rule number one.

494
00:41:24,273 --> 00:41:25,983
Sure. Okay.

495
00:41:28,777 --> 00:41:32,114
Okay. And if we start taking risks

496
00:41:32,114 --> 00:41:34,283
that shouldn't be taken, then the affair ends.

497
00:41:34,283 --> 00:41:37,536
- And we should always meet out of town. - Agree, agree, agree.

498
00:41:42,708 --> 00:41:49,006
All expenses, gas, motel, food, will be shared equally.

499
00:41:49,006 --> 00:41:52,801
We'll meet only on weekdays, and I'll be in charge

500
00:41:52,801 --> 00:41:55,304
of fixing lunch on the days that we meet,

501
00:41:55,304 --> 00:41:56,764
so that we just have more time.

502
00:41:57,473 --> 00:42:00,100
And I'll also be in charge of getting the motel room.

503
00:42:00,643 --> 00:42:03,062
Same reason. It just gives us more quality time.

504
00:42:03,062 --> 00:42:04,021
Shall we

505
00:42:05,648 --> 00:42:08,817
set a date for the affair to begin?

506
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:14,823
Let's go with December 12th.

507
00:42:15,491 --> 00:42:16,450
December 12th?

508
00:42:17,785 --> 00:42:18,953
This year.

509
00:42:20,412 --> 00:42:21,747
Great.

510
00:42:22,957 --> 00:42:25,125
December 12th it is.

511
00:42:28,045 --> 00:42:30,297
Oh, Margaret, you don't know what it does to me,

512
00:42:30,297 --> 00:42:32,925
being near you all day in surgery, only able to touch...

513
00:42:43,143 --> 00:42:45,062
You alright?

514
00:42:45,062 --> 00:42:46,272
I'm good.

515
00:42:47,564 --> 00:42:51,068
This song gives me goosebumps.

516
00:42:51,068 --> 00:42:54,196
I'm the same way about "Pennsylvania 6-5000."

517
00:42:58,701 --> 00:43:00,119
What are you doin'?

518
00:43:02,663 --> 00:43:03,914
What am I doin'?

519
00:43:04,748 --> 00:43:08,585
You once told me that your favorite character was Snugglepuss.

520
00:43:09,545 --> 00:43:11,880
Did you not tell me that, Pat?

521
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,882
Snagglepuss.

522
00:43:56,508 --> 00:43:58,260
Hey, angel girl.

523
00:43:59,595 --> 00:44:01,513
Come out smarter than you go in.

524
00:44:01,513 --> 00:44:03,265
I will, Mom.

525
00:44:03,265 --> 00:44:04,641
- And no talking to boys. - You're so silly.

526
00:44:17,821 --> 00:44:20,699
Okay, buddy. Next stop, preschool.

527
00:46:27,075 --> 00:46:28,285
Hello?

528
00:46:28,285 --> 00:46:29,786
I'm at the Continental Inn

529
00:46:29,786 --> 00:46:32,831
on the Central Expressway towards Dallas, room 214.

530
00:46:33,916 --> 00:46:36,835
I will be there in a few minutes.

531
00:47:54,788 --> 00:47:56,206
What am I doin'?

532
00:48:04,256 --> 00:48:06,925
...and show our boys some red and blue pride.

533
00:48:09,428 --> 00:48:10,971
...time for a couple of calls.

534
00:48:10,971 --> 00:48:13,140
Hello, Darcy. Welcome to The Dan Ram Show.

535
00:48:13,140 --> 00:48:16,018
Hey, Dan, thanks for taking my call.

536
00:49:00,812 --> 00:49:01,980
I made lunch.

537
00:49:04,524 --> 00:49:05,901
Well, you look beautiful. Really beautiful.

538
00:49:07,235 --> 00:49:08,654
Thank you.

539
00:49:12,658 --> 00:49:14,826
- Well, we should eat. - Excellent.

540
00:49:17,204 --> 00:49:19,998
Wow. Looks delicious.

541
00:49:20,916 --> 00:49:22,084
Sorry.

542
00:49:28,006 --> 00:49:31,760
You know, I've probably driven past this motel a thousand times

543
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:33,345
and hardly knew it was here.

544
00:49:33,345 --> 00:49:34,888
Yeah, it's funny that way.

545
00:49:35,806 --> 00:49:37,516
Life. You know, the

546
00:49:38,433 --> 00:49:40,394
bland and innocuous can

547
00:49:42,145 --> 00:49:44,856
suddenly take on vivid hues and colors.

548
00:49:50,070 --> 00:49:51,571
I take a creative writing class.

549
00:49:52,406 --> 00:49:55,117
- Well, that was really good. - Thank you.

550
00:49:56,451 --> 00:49:59,913
I would love to read some of your writing sometime.

551
00:50:00,622 --> 00:50:01,581
Really?

552
00:50:01,581 --> 00:50:03,917
Well, that would make one of you

553
00:50:03,917 --> 00:50:05,669
'cause Pat has no interest,

554
00:50:05,669 --> 00:50:08,171
and I read all of his stuff on electromagnetics--

555
00:50:08,171 --> 00:50:09,840
Are we talking about Pat now?

556
00:50:11,049 --> 00:50:14,344
No, sorry. We're definitely not.

557
00:50:44,791 --> 00:50:46,042
Are you just gonna stand there?

558
00:50:47,461 --> 00:50:48,628
Yes.

559
00:51:28,335 --> 00:51:29,628
Sorry.

560
00:51:29,628 --> 00:51:32,380
Allan, have you never been French kissed before?

561
00:51:36,134 --> 00:51:39,096
You've never had a woman's tongue in your mouth?

562
00:51:44,726 --> 00:51:46,853
Well, I think you're gonna quite like it.

563
00:53:17,193 --> 00:53:19,613
- Are you okay? - I am.

564
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:22,908
So okay.

565
00:53:26,161 --> 00:53:28,330
- You? - Oh, yeah.

566
00:53:30,332 --> 00:53:31,249
Yeah.

567
00:53:31,791 --> 00:53:33,668
That was wonderful, Candy.

568
00:53:36,588 --> 00:53:38,465
You're wonderful.

569
00:53:43,053 --> 00:53:44,930
We need to shower.

570
00:53:44,930 --> 00:53:46,765
I probably should have added that to the list.

571
00:53:46,765 --> 00:53:49,351
Always shower after

572
00:53:49,351 --> 00:53:52,771
and that way, we won't smell like each other.

573
00:53:52,771 --> 00:53:55,357
- Yeah. - Yeah. Oh, and Allan.

574
00:53:56,608 --> 00:53:57,692
Allan.

575
00:53:58,610 --> 00:54:00,487
That was

576
00:54:02,113 --> 00:54:03,531
wonderful.

577
00:54:10,956 --> 00:54:11,873
Okay.

